Thinking of things in terms of ‘Should Be’ in Plights of
Fantasy
BY EARTH SOL ON AUGUST 17, 2012 IN UNCATEGORIZED { EDIT }
When the image of how one ‘should be’ in reality gets so far
from ideal, the individual may engage narcissism to compensate for the loss in
respect to how one ‘should be’.
The narcissism is an excuse-making schema where whatever the
item which is a detriment to how one ‘should be’, the item that is the symbol
of how one fell short of what ‘should be’ can represent the assignator of
faults. Therefore, no faults of the person can be directly accepted for
blame when the detrimental ‘item’ is separate from the image of how one ‘should
be’.
All the blame is externalized and in an ‘imaginary
realm.’ Those ideas of blame are circling around the object/item which
can alternatively be the assignator of the fault (fault #1, detriments the
image of how the narcissistic one ‘should be’). This behavior/mental
process is called malignant narcissism because the person who has fallen from
their ideal image of how they ‘should be’ is not accepting any responsibility
for being less than they should be.
All of the blame is externalized and therefore all aggressive
tendencies regarding the state of being less than the ideal is attempted to be
justified by blame placing anything but this one individual who feels less than
they ‘should be’. This is the modus operandi that criminal officers
in power use to achieve their political or military objectives when they know
their objective would not be publically acceptable. In order to not fall
short of their objectives which may be publically disapproved; the striving for
achieving the objective in the most ideal way meeting any public dissidence
makes a friction by which aggressions of the striving may be accumulated.
This is modus operandi for the violent regimes.
This is also how the representative of the violent regime
will almost always: 1. deny that any abuse occurred 2. deny
responsibility for the abuse that occurred. His striving for what he
thinks ‘should be’ is so strong is makes an affect blocking against anything
but having it. He is incapable of having any empathy because he’s
striving too strongly for what ‘should be’, no matter how violent the crime he
is denying that occurs. The idea of the person harmed is so vastly
separated in his own mind. For having obstructed his imagination of being
how he ‘should be’ ideally this ‘obstruction’ more and more his hatred for it
he’s building.
He gets frustrated by the attentions drawn to him that he
might be responsible for abuse, because it’s ‘attacking’ his delusion that he
is how he ‘should be’.
His world in which he may be stretched far away from reality
in order to get the sense he’s as he ‘should be’. What he feels ‘should
be’ becomes equated with righteousness. By the delusion that what ‘should
be’ is the same as what is righteous, his situtational awareness is
handicapped. All the ideas outside of that comparatively puny area can be
viewed as an attacker of what is righteous if it challenges what he thinks
‘should be’, thence self-central. This is known as the type of person who
thinks they can “kill with impunity”.
The more self-central he is, the punier he gets about what he
“Should Be”, and the more he thinks it’s a just cause that he wants to destroy
this item that’s wrecking his contentedness that he’s got it as it ‘should be’.
The word devil means “slanderer, accuser”, the connector to
why the most evil people will always claim it is in fact the one they victimize
who is the terrorist/terrorist sympathizer/criminal actor. In their puny
self-central, there is full righteousness they feel about being what they
‘should be’. Also is the root of the sadist tendencies which are linked
to the sexual sadism. Because desire gets fused with wanting to hurt the
‘item’
Unsupportable sense of self-importance and unsupportable
sense of greatness.
BY EARTH SOL ON AUGUST 18, 2012 IN UNCATEGORIZED { EDIT }
Anxiety is a feeling of anticipation to control what is feared
as potential loss, shame, guilt, or embarrassment. Anxiety creates
behavior of the person to minimize the affect or effect something may
have. The first technique is minimalization. Minimalization is an
ego defence mechanism where by the person tries to employ as many arguments in
their mindset to make the threat seem lesser and their self seem greater, so as
to proxy a sense of control overstanding a thing. Narcissist will do
whatever they can to reduce the value of the thing feared, which is the thing
that could cause the narcissist to feel shame, guilt, embarrassment or loss of
control over anything. The DSM of mental disorder published by the
American Psychiatric Association classify the most severe defence as the
pathological defences: psychotic denial and delusional projection.
The moderate level defences are immature defences: projection, passive
aggression, acting out and fantasy. The low moderate level defences are
neurotic defences: reaction formation, displacement, repression, dissociation,
intellectualization. The low-defencivness level, the mature defences
are: anticipation, suppression, humour, altruism, sublimation.
In extreme, prolonged duration of stress, the psyche
essentially has fantasies of overcoming what is the cause of the extreme
stress. In fight-or-flight scenarios prolonged, survival fantasies
develop. Annihilation anxieties are triggered by a survival threat.
In extreme, prolonged duration of compounding fight-or-flight distress,
annihilation-survival fantasies are constructed by the psyche. The
imminence of vulnerability to strains increases the perceivable tolerance to
them. The tolerance threshold to any sort of strain is
‘jouissance’. Jouissance is a psychoanalytic term for the pleasure-pain spectrum,
based on tension, which classifies the differentiation of masochist and sadist
from winers/complainers. Closer to the tolerance threshold, the psyche is
striving for discharge of the tensions.
Fear of being overwhelmed, fear of being unable to cope, fear
of merger/entrapment, fear of being devoured each put a subject in the sense of
specific conditions. The sense of being in the conditions create
accompanying psychological components which are invested in the survival
fantasy. The survival fantasy can be predominantly of the psyche with
little connection to the outside reality, especially if the survival fantasy is
made of components from childhood traumas. All psychological perversions
are made of components from childhood experience which detrimented the childs
sense of self or the childs self-worth. Hence, created an unconscious
‘survival’ fantasy, the survival of the childs sense of self-worth which is the
foundation of their identity.
Grandiosity is a word to describe the character of something
overblown from its actual significance. Grandiose character is manifest
when the individual comes to develop their personality upon a concept of
over-valuation. What ever the symptoms of the gradiosity of the
character, the concept of what is being over-valued is embedded. The perchant
for grandiosity is developed in childhood. The childs sense of self may
become conflated with the greatness of feeling some pointed sort of
accomplishment. The reward of the grandiose is the feeling of
greatness. The feeling of greatness may be derived from the adulation
they are rewarded with, the recognition of a specialness, or the fear inspired
in others by the greatness. The trace components of grandiosity are the
components which are amplified in any sort of ‘survival’ fantasy.
The psyche of a grandiose in a ‘survival’ fantasy is
volatile. In a fight-or-flight scenario, the development of the survival
fantasy in the grandiose character is hyper-sensitized to gravity of their
situtation. The grandiosity is unsupportable under weight of the gravity
in circumstance. The ‘survival’ of their sense of self that has been
dependent on the feeling of greatness is made vulnerable. Therefore, the
most predominanting behaviors are the strivings for that sense of greatness to
prevail, manifesting a particular set of conditions to form the fulfillment of
the survival fantasy.
Grandiose entitlement neuroses in a sample of the criminal
investigation of bashar al-assad
BY EARTH SOL ON AUGUST 18, 2012 IN UNCATEGORIZED { EDIT }
A neurosis is an obsessive compulsion to repeat a
behavior. The obsessive-compulsive repitition is caused by the striving
of the psyche desperate to get something. The sense of desperation is the
fear of dis repair to being overcome by lack of the thing desired. The sense
of urgency to prevent dis repair is the driver to the amount of recklessness
acted out to obtain it. Recklessness is a narcissism in the state of
blindedness whereby the actor aggresses on behalf of what is wished for.
The central objectification to all acts committed by bashar
symbolize an entitlement neurosis of bashar. Bashar is acting out a
compulsive-neurosis in the effort to affirm his grandiose sense of entitlement
over the land and the people of the land. The behaviors of his ministers
and their allies also display symptoms of the grandiose entitlement
neurosis. Whereby, they are in an extreme disssociative state in the
efforts of their insistence that they are entitled to destroy and murder, in
retribution for the obstructions to what they believe they are entitled
to. The entitlement neurosis is attempted to be naturalized by the
Arab League whom all are compulsively retreating from potential realization
that they are displaying each their own symptoms of grandiose entitlement
neuroses.
Bashar not likely could sustain command over the Airforce if
more Stinger anti-aircraft missiles are supplied to Free Syria Army. He
has issued a threat in response, that he in turn would supply PKK with Russian
SA-8 anti-air missiles. The threat is directed to the instance of the Mig
aircraft being shot down, denoting this is the undercurrent which USA and
Turkey had hesitated for to impose the no-fly zone(s). Unfortunately,
areas bombed by bashar in retribution have been the symbol of bashar casting his
own self off to the brink of no-return. Bashars destabilization is making
him reckless toward the sense of dis repair. To the civilians it is
walking on eggshells everyday bashar’s disturbance of mind is prolonged.
